1. See
  2. Heal
  3. Gather
  4. Trust
  5. Express

Stage 02 of 10 · See what's yours

Your own voice.

Separate your own voice from the voices you absorbed.

Begin lesson 2.1
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Stage two. Your own voice. Separate your own voice from the voices you absorbed.

Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing, there is a field. I'll meet you there.
Rumi, tr. Coleman Barks
What it means

Step past the rules you were handed about what's right for you. In that open space, you can meet yourself honestly.

In this stage

3 lessons, then a quick check.

  1. 2.1 Where your "shoulds" came from Trace your beliefs about success and work back to family, school, culture, workplaces, and the places you grew up. Lesson 1
  2. 2.2 Borrowed dreams vs. your own Notice which goals you chose and which you inherited. Lesson 2
  3. 2.3 Choosing what to keep Understand that not all programming is bad. You get to choose. Lesson 3
  4. ? What clicked? 3 quick questions, played one at a time. Stage check