Build Inner Peace: Breathwork, Self-Talk, Harmlessness
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The Physics of Peace: Be It Before You See It

Peace is not something you wait for, it is something you practice from the inside out. The book "Let’s Be Peace: 20 Unique Paths to Healing Yourself and Spreading Peace in the World" teaches a simple idea: when you find peace inside, you naturally radiate peace, calm, and a sense of well-being that becomes infectious, and “nothing more than just being is necessary” to spread it.In this view, your thoughts, words, and actions are not small, they are the “signal” you live in. And peace is learnable: breathe deeply, listen for your inner “gut” truth, clean up the way you speak to yourself, and commit to daily practices like forgiveness and gratitude.

What “Being Peace” Really Means (and Why It Changes the Room)

The book frames peace as an inside job. It starts within you, then moves outward into your life.

One contributor describes “being peace” as when everything comes together, “thoughts, words, your consciousness, your energy, and your vibration,” creating a field of peace that others feel right away. Another explains it this way: “everything has a signature frequency, like a radio signal that can be picked up by others.”

That is why this work matters. You are not just trying to feel better, you are also learning to become a calmer presence in your home, your work, and the world.

A story from the book makes this real. A teacher visited a student whose rescued dogs were fearful and feral. The dogs would scatter for everyone, until the teacher and her husband arrived and the dogs greeted them calmly. When asked what she was doing, she said: “I am not doing anything, but I am being peace and being safe. I’m being secure. My vibration says you don’t have to be in reaction mode, defensive mode, or fear mode.”

If you have ever walked into a space and felt tension, or walked into a space and felt safe, you already understand this.

How to Find Inner Peace Fast: Breathe Deeply, Go Inside, Trust Your “Gut”

The book keeps returning to the same starting place: come back to yourself.

One of the core tips is simple and direct: “Go Inside, breathe deeply, still yourself, and create your own path to peace and calm.”

Breathing techniques for peace (4-4-4-4 or 4-7-8)

The book offers two easy breath patterns:

  • 4-4-4-4 (breathe in 4, hold 4, breathe out 4, hold 4)
  • 4-7-8 (breathe in 4, hold 7, breathe out 8)

You do not need to overcomplicate it. The practice is the point. When life gets loud, breathing is a way to return to yourself.

Ask the question, then feel for the answer

Another core tip is to use the body as a compass: **“When seeking answers for yourself, breathe deeply, then ask yourself the questions. Feel in your ‘gut,’ and if you feel good, proceed with that answer.”**If you feel unsure, the guidance is to wait and ask again. If your gut feels off-balance, that is an answer too.

This is not about forcing certainty. It is about building self-trust, one honest check-in at a time.

A grounding twist you can try today

The author shares a small practice she loves: counting with “Let’s Be Peace.” **“Formerly, she would count one Mississippi, two Mississippi… And, now she says, one Let’s Be Peace, two Let’s Be Peace…”**It is simple, but it keeps you close to the intention.

Your Words Are Frequencies: Watch Your Thoughts and Your Self-Talk

The book is clear: peace begins with what you carry inside. One section even calls it “mental hygiene,” asking us to treat our thoughts with the same care we give to cleaning the body.

It names a key idea: **“As words are frequencies, they attract experiences to us.”**Then it offers questions you can use to gently interrupt old patterns:

  • “Are my thoughts in alignment with what I truly want to manifest?”
  • “Are my thoughts in alignment with true peace?”

This matters because many of us live with old beliefs running in the background, beliefs like: “I am not (good) enough… I am unworthy… I am unlovable.” The book’s direction is not to shame yourself for having these thoughts, but to notice them and replace them with healthier ones.

One contributor shares how negative loops worsened her fear and symptoms, until she listened to the inner voice that told her she had the power to change her reality. Another says it plainly: “Our thoughts and our words are what create our reality.”

If you want one simple starting sentence from the book, here is a real example used during healing: “I feel great! I walk with grace and ease.”

Daily Peace Practices That Actually Stick: Quiet Space, Forgiveness, Gratitude

The book does not ask you to do everything. It gives you options and reminds you: “embrace what resonates with you and discard what does not.”

Unplug and find quiet in a way that fits your life

One contributor says peace is not something you expect the outer world to bring you, you learn to cultivate it within. She recommends giving yourself even five minutes a day to unplug from outward distractions, and being gentle with yourself as you deepen into the practice.And if sitting meditation is not for you, the book offers everyday versions: pulling weeds, doing dishes, and loving on your pet.

Forgiveness: let go so you can move on

The author’s tip list is straightforward: **“Forgive yourself and others. Forgiveness is a key to moving on.”**Another section offers a four-line forgiveness practice: **“I am sorry. Please forgive me. I love you. Thank you!”**It also reminds us, “The more we forgive, the freer we are!”

Gratitude: a small practice with a big lift

The book calls gratitude “a gateway” into higher states and peace. It suggests starting or ending the day with a gratitude journal, and even writing why you are grateful.The author also shares her habit: “I always do my gratitudes before I get out of bed each morning, and again, at night before falling asleep.”

What Changes When You Practice Peace First: Health, Relationships, and a Softer Life

The book names real stakes and real rewards.

It says plainly:

  • “Peace inside improves mental health.”
  • “Peace inside provides you tools for physical health and wellness.”
  • When people achieve peace within themselves, they translate it into “bodies, relationships, careers, finances, and all aspects of life.”

It also asks for personal responsibility: peace begins with thoughts, words, and actions, and we step out of victimhood and into self-mastery.And it keeps the bigger mission simple: creating peace in the world happens by each of us being peace inside, “one person at a time.”

One last grounding reminder from the opening pages is worth sitting with: “If you are at peace, you are in the present.”

Peace is not a finish line. It is a daily choice to return inward, breathe, listen, forgive, and be grateful, so that what you radiate matches the life you want to live. What is one small practice you can “embrace” today, and keep for the next seven days?